I can relate. I used to avoid goals because I didn't know where to start. I thought that if I didn't set the goal, I wouldn't have to disappoint myself.
I no longer worry about giving up along the way. Now I've realized that "thinking big" means breaking the goal into smaller chunks and being kind to myself.
It means knowing what obstacles you might face along the way. But now with that self-awareness, you can continue to chase those dreams and transform them into realities!!
Before, I'd find ways to talk myself out of setting goals because I'd be so overwhelmed by the idea of starting. I only looked at the end result and thought, "There's no way".
I had no idea that it meant making small adjustments. With each shift, I found myself gaining confidence and seeing progress overtime.